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There's a fine line between imagining the life we want with the characters we've chosen in an effort to manifest ever better relationships - and just plain trying to control our lives, our circumstances, or our partners. So where is the line? And if it's true that we don't have any control over anything, really, then why is it so hard to let it go and just appreciate what comes in the way that it does? Are we keeping ourselves from real happiness because we're so invested in an imagined version, that when what we want shows up looking different than we expected, we can't see it at all? undefined